CROSS REFERENCES:
(julie's case):
so i old her not to smoke in my car. i told her this several, several times.
and she had already smoked one cigarette after i told her not to. but i was
driving and i wasn't in a position to do anything. she was in the backseat.
so i told her not to again. i dont like people smoking in my car. after some
time she lit up another cigarette. so i reached back and grabbed her arm and
dug my nails in as deep as i could. i tore at her skin to where she started to
bleed. then i continued driving. she finished smoking the cigarette, but didnt
smoke any more after that. no one else has tried to pull that kind of crap
again either. when people are totally disrespecting you or things you own, i
feel justified in causing pain to bring across my point.
(buying alcohol):
i dont buy alcohol. not for anyone. at anytime. except when im making an
exception. which i do so very incredibly rarely. but still. people are always
asking me to buy them alcohol. begging me to. when they know. i dont buy
alcohol. they try to argue with me. give me reasons why i should. but its a
plain fact that whether or not i buy them alcohol will have no affect on me.
its completely self-serving to them. so i feel no reason to change my stance
on the matter. its an aspect of my personality i dont feel i should change
for others. because theyre not trying to get me to change my views on the
principle of the matter. they want alcohol. and thats the only reason they try
to get me to change. theres a time to change for others and a time not to.